Rek Funerals (2024)

FAQs

What does the mortician do with the body? ›

Cleans and dresses the body. If there will be a viewing the mortician arranges the body in the casket, and does their hair and makeup. If the family has chosen to have the remains embalmed, the mortician does the embalming.

Classic sentiments such as, “I am sorry for your loss” and “Please accept my condolences” are fitting in almost any situation. If you had a close relationship with the deceased you might opt for a more personal message such as, “He was such a wonderful friend to me.” or “I will never forget everything she did for me.”

In most cases, you're likely to hear the news directly from close family or friends of the deceased. If not, you may find out through an announcement in the local paper. There are also online platforms that publish details of recent deaths.

"I remove your tongue during an autopsy. We need to make sure you didn't bite down on it, make sure you don't have drugs in the back of your throat." The technician added that piercings in a person's nipples, nose, ears, eyebrows and "private parts" could remain with them after death.

During cremation, the body parts that do burn consist of organs, soft tissue, hair, and skin, while the water in our bodies evaporates. The body parts that do not burn are bone fragments. Teeth usually burn during cremation, but not entirely.

You could start with something simple like: “My name is __________ , the wife/husband/son/daughter/friend of ___________.” Another idea is to explain how you knew the deceased, or how you first met. However, you should take care to avoid focusing the eulogy on you.

Because I have loved life, I shall have no sorrow to die. I have sent up my gladness on wings, to be lost in the blue of the sky. I have run and leaped with the rain, I have taken the wind to my breast.

"Please accept my deepest condolences for your loss." "(The deceased) was a great person, and I'll miss them very much." "(He/she) meant a lot to me and everyone else at (the work place.) (He/she) contributed a lot to the company and our team, and (the deceased) will be missed."

As you are giving your speech, if you begin to feel tears swell up, look up at the audience. This quick action can serve as a distraction for your mind and help hold the tears back. You can also scan the audience to see a friendly face which may also help in making you feel more relaxed and able to hold back the tears.

What can I take to stop me crying at a funeral? ›

Taking sips of water will help get rid of the lump, and you'll gain better control of your crying. Plan ahead and bring a small bottle of water with you if you think you might get emotional during the funeral.

Continuing to struggle with your emotions after the public observances have quieted down is common, even if it might seem like others are easily getting back into their daily routines. Your loved one, and your memories with them, will continue to pop into your consciousness long past these allocated moments for grief.

It's only human to want to offer some words of comfort, but saying something like “I hope it's a nice funeral” does not really sound right. If someone you know, for example, a work colleague, is attending a funeral, it's good to: Express your condolences. Let the person know that you are sorry for their loss.

Most American funerals take place within one week or less from death. With the help of a funeral home, a week is typically enough time to make arrangements and contact loved ones. Historically, funerals had to take place after just a matter of days, because of decomposition.

Cooling and preservation: The mortuary maintains a controlled environment to slow down the natural decomposition process. Bodies are typically kept in refrigerated units, which help preserve the remains until they are released for further procedures or collection by funeral services.

NO. Embalming doesn't remove any organ in the body. Instead, the embalmer replaces the blood with embalming fluid – formaldehyde-based chemicals – through the arteries. For this reason, an embalmed body placed in a casket can last for many years.

I then puncture the internal organs to drain the fluid. I remove the contents of the intestines, bowels and bladder, too, as these can give off gases and smell. I don't come into contact with the fluids. It's very clean and tidy.

If a funeral director picks up an unclaimed body and can't find the next of kin, they can either pay for the burial with the money provided by the state, and absorb the rest of the cost, or store the body in a refrigerated space, in hopes that a family member will eventually turn up.